Approach to Addiction Counselling

All addictions have something in common: a repetitive pattern of use that creates problems for the individual including negative impact on physical, mental or emotional health or problems for those who are connected to that individual such as marital issues, performance problems on the job, or social strain with friends due to inappropriate behaviors associated with the addiction. By the time someone shows for addiction counselling there has often been a crisis or event that precipitated making the appointment such as the threat of losing a marriage or job loss if performance problems continue. As a result clients often present as a bit shell shocked, either confused or angry about having to to be in a position of seeking help for a problem that they may not even agree that they have.

Once in counselling, the client is encouraged to look more closely at how they are using substances, gambling etc in their life. The spectrum of normal use, abuse and dependence is discussed allowing the client to place themselves where they believe they fit. The purpose of using a spectrum is help the client get out of the "I either do or do not a have problem" position which they are often in with their spouse or employer.

Once the client accepts where they are in this spectrum we can begin to discuss the necessary changes they will need to address. Doing so develops the counselling goals collaboratively increasing the chances of a client buying in to these goals. The goals however need to realistic with where the client is on the spectrum. For example if an individual has been drinking in a daily excessive manor for several years and is experiencing blackouts and regular personality changes (usually from good to bad) they are not likely going to be successful at "moderating" their drinking. Usually they have already tried this approach with short term success only to relapse back to previous patterns… If another client has been increasing alcohol consumption in the last few months and believes that this is out of character for them they may have a goal of learning how to moderate their drinking in high risk situations such as extreme stress.

Stages of Addiction Counselling

In the initial phase of counselling the goals is to address the addictive or abuse pattern and as such all efforts at change are targeted on this goal. The client is assisted in understanding all high risk contexts including moods, places such as frequently visited bars and restaurants, and friends that may be associated with the additive pattern. Most importantly the client is helped to understand their permission giving or "addictive voice" that allows them to return to the addictive pattern. For example a typical permission giving voice may say "go ahead you deserve to have a drink, you have been good this week" or "I will just have one then stop, I know if I work at this I can control it". Once the client discovers their particular way of talking themselves back into using whatever substance, they can begin to challenge this voice more effectively with counselling help. The permission giving or "addictive voice" occurs with all addictions and once discovered can be very instrumental in producing change.

Once the additive or abuse pattern has been successfully changed, phase two of counselling can begin. In phase two we more closely examine underlying issues that possibly under pin the addictive pattern. For example unresolved self esteem issues or depression may pre-date the addictive pattern. Clients often will often want to discuss the "whys" of their addiction first but to do so first only leads down pathways that keep the addiction pattern alive. Addiction and abuse create enough of their own problems that need to be addressed first before attempting to understand and treat deeper level issues.

Terry Penner is an experienced addiction counsellor in Calgary and may be able to help with your situation. You can book an appointment with Terry Penner directly at (403) 283-7351.

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